Bee's Column : I like the wrong team!!

Q :

i'm a full pledge woman, a mature one, but why oh why i just can't stand it when it comes to cute boys??? not to be racial, but i really love chinese twinks, but now here i am, i love my junior at work, but he's a gay and proud of it, what should i do?

from WhyILoveQueerSoMuch @ middle earth

Q :

hi bee! udah 3 bulan gw suka sama cowok straight, dan dia adalah sahabat gw dari masuk kuliah ini... awalnya sih biasa aja, tp entah mengapa gw merasa dia memberikan sinyal2 ke gw. but he's soooo straight.... too straight to be gay or like men... should i try my luck?

from SensasiStraight @ bukan di kota besar.

A :

well hello WILQSM and SS, welcome to the real world... where everything is not always the way you want it. BUT! it's not like you can't do something about it. what you guys should do? try your best, and being honest. but be careful.. apapun bisa terjadi, termasuk yg paling menyakitkan. not just rejection, but he may leaves you and maybe hate you, or disgust you (yes SS, this last one is for you). is he worth it? if the answer is yes, then go for it... try.. try and try... the problem with liking the wrong team is, we became helpless, it's even harder than just liking someone. but there's no smoke if there's no fire. well, maybe it's just your guts, but maybe it's the signals from him! so you'll never know the answer if you don't go for it. be brave. and like the the cheerleaders always say... Be aggressive be be aggressive!!